"Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up."

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Beliefs Men have About Women

Belief 1
Women will never be satisfied
Truth
Women are always looking for ways to make things better.
Don’t take her suggestions as complaints or criticism, nut as her desire to make relationship or situation the best that it can be.

Belief 2
A strong, confident woman doesn’t need a man
Truth
Everyone loves to be taken care of and to feel needed. Even if a woman can fix things around the house or change oil on her car, she will still ask for your help, so that she can feel your strength, support and protection.
Don’t ever stop asking, “What can I do for you?” because it shows her that you care.

Belief 3.
Women only want to control men
Truth.
It is not about control; it is about love, when a woman sees a man hurting, struggling or overwhelmed, her goal is to help, not control.
Let her give you a helping hand.

Belief 4
Keeping a woman requires a lot of handwork, time and money.
Truth.
A serious relationship requires time and efforts to cultivate it.
You shouldn’t took it as burden, your wife will reprocate the efforts you put into it.

Belief 5
You can’t lie to women
Truth
Women are extremely capable of picking up minds and attitudes and can easily read body language and facial expressions.
Although you may think that you have gotten away with a great lie, she is either letting it slide, because she wants to keep the peace or she is lying to herself because she is afraid of the truth.

Belief 6
Jealousy and possessiveness are part of being a woman.
Truth
Women are protective of what belongs to them. They protect things they value, especially when it comes to relationship.
It is not she does not trust; she is guarding to allow the relationship. You are too precious to her for her to allow anything bad to happen.

Belief 7
Women are emotional
Truth
Women don’t hide their feelings. They articulate what is going on in their minds. There is nothing wrong with their emotions we are have them.
Being in touch with their emotions causes them to be sensitive and caring and that is why men love them

Proverbs 31:29
There are many fine women in the world; but you are the best of them all.

Proverbs 31:11
Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs.







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